Self-styled life coach, Solomon Buchi, has slammed Nigerian ladies who go towards Pastor Funke Adejumo's teachings on how single girls ought to behave after they go to their future in-laws for the primary time.
Naija Information reviews that in a sermon, Adejumo suggested single girls visiting their potential in-laws to kneel and never stand till instructed to take action.
She additionally suggested them to watch out about their consuming habits and take a look at to not eat meat that’s too robust in order to not spill oil all over the place.
Nonetheless, the pastor's recommendation didn’t go down properly with some girls, who insisted her tips had been too strict.
In response to Adejumo's classes, an X person @faree_for_real mentioned: ''If I am going to go to your dad and mom they usually check me with these bizarre guidelines, know that I'm going to fail on function. I’m not prepared to place in a lot effort to show that I’m “prim and correct”. I’m not prepared to be held to misogynistic requirements. If the truth that their son loves me isn't sufficient, I'm not .”
Buchi took to social media to sentence the X-user for evaluating Adejumo's teachings to misogyny.
He argued that every one the preacher mentioned had been simply fundamental guidelines of life for folks to observe. He additional mentioned that he feels sorry for the boys who need to marry ladies with such mentality.
In response to him, ''Quiet! I'm completely sick of how ladies put misogyny on every part. That video is principally about social decorum, habits and etiquette within the tradition of Nigerian society, be it Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba.
“It’s a must to be accepted by the household you married into. It's not one thing that can occur each time, nevertheless it's higher that it occurs.
“If you meet your in-laws for the primary time, you need to conduct your self properly. What’s misogyny? What if they begin testing me with all these bizarre guidelines? What’s that?! What’s misogynistic about not having to pull meat, not having to spill oil all over the place, not having to be transported? What is definitely misogynistic about that? “He mentioned the identical guidelines apply to males and that they need to behave after they go to their in-laws for the primary time.”
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